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by daniel
10 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Pinkbutterfly
Replies: 3
Views: 11770

Re: Pinkbutterfly

She was a month short of 18 when she first started coming in but because she was so bright I let her stay.  For her safety (and until her birthday,) I removed her ability to talk with anyone in private and she could not see anything privately sent to her.  I doubt this will ever be done again.
by daniel
10 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Pinkbutterfly
Replies: 3
Views: 11770

Pinkbutterfly

Regina asked on our Facebook page about the status of Pinkbutterfly.  I decided to reply here because it's easier for me.  Regina, THANK YOU!  I mean that seriously.  You're the first person to actually ask.  Others just decided to spread bullshit rumors instead of just asking TiGgEr or myself.  Onc...
by daniel
10 years ago
Forum: Announcements
Topic: New Directions
Replies: 1
Views: 36131

New Directions

For those who do not know the history of our chat room, it was started by Carly Matthews back in 1997.  Carly was the administrator and she set the agenda and she made the rules.  My only role was managing the technical aspects.  I did all the programming and other related geeky stuff.  This is how ...
by daniel
10 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: The Attack Mentality
Replies: 1
Views: 8359

The Attack Mentality

The issue I have with the room is the change of mentality of the users. The original intent of the site was to bring people together to have interesting conversations with the under-riding theme that most, if not all, of the members were either disabled, had disabled family or worked with disabled. ...
by daniel
10 years ago
Forum: Friendship, Romance and Dating
Topic: new here and looking for friends
Replies: 3
Views: 10353

Re: new here and looking for friends

Hey Jimmy, you should consider coming into the chat room. :)
by daniel
11 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Changes
Replies: 1
Views: 8078

Changes

I swore I was not going to do this, because I don’t owe anyone an explanation for my actions, so I am doing it for myself. As you may have noticed, there have been some dramatic changes in the room in the last week.  Expect more. There are two new moderators: Eileen and Darcy.  These are the the f...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Students are Welcome
Replies: 0
Views: 8466

Students are Welcome

Hi all, Usually about twice a year we have students who come into the room and ask for volunteers to answer some sociology/disability related questions.   Most of them are in training to be doctors, nurses, therapists, counselors and a few are training to be engineers in disability related fields li...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Private Messages
Replies: 0
Views: 8768

Private Messages

I'm beginning to get frustrated by the whole private message argument so I'm going to clarify it one last time. So far, two other chat rooms and a couple random people have started rumors about the ability for moderators to read private messages.   READ MY LIPS!  MODERATORS CANNOT READ PRIVATE MESSA...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Dawg banned
Replies: 0
Views: 8005

Dawg banned

I have been forced to ban Dawg yet again and unfortunately his fiance too.  I wish I could keep one and not the other but they share the same network so it's not possible. He was able to sneak in while I was asleep and state his case to the room. Though I can't directly verify any of the claims he m...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Critter's departure from Disabilities-R-Us
Replies: 2
Views: 11416

Re: Critter's departure from Disabilities-R-Us

Critter, the purpose of posting ban information is so that everyone sees the whole story, not just one side of it.  I try to do this every time someone of note goes away or is removed. I got your email asking to be allowed back about 30 minutes ago and after forwarding it to Dena to get her opinion ...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Rumors, lies and other crap.
Replies: 1
Views: 9278

Rumors, lies and other crap.

It's time for a small rant... I'm a bit frustrated by some things in the chat room lately, frustrated enough to make me want to find somewhere else to chat.  Most of it deals with the childish rumor mill. 1. The thing that upsets me the most is all the people telling other people " Daniel said.... (...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Cuddlybear and Butterflie - 3 day ban.
Replies: 0
Views: 8084

Cuddlybear and Butterflie - 3 day ban.

Cuddlybear and Butterflie received an automatic 3 day ban by the security bot for engaging in "cybersex" which is a violation of the rules.  We are a chat room, not a brothel. The rumors have been flying that he got banned for just telling a dirty joke and/or it was just a mistake.  This is a lie.  ...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Critter's departure from Disabilities-R-Us
Replies: 2
Views: 11416

Critter's departure from Disabilities-R-Us

Critter's departure from Disabilities-R-Us came about so.  Dena rightfully banned Critter for 3 hours after this happened in the room on December 5, 2010.  Please note that for brevity, I removed all the lines from people who were not directly participating in the Critter conversation. [09:08] critt...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Chat Room Actions
Topic: Smiles
Replies: 0
Views: 7969

Smiles

Since people keep asking, yes, Smiles is indeed banned.  This was her choice, not mine. During and after our annual fund raising time she repeatedly told people that she hoped we did not get enough money and that she hoped the room would have to close because of it.  This is equal to being invited t...
by daniel
13 years ago
Forum: Sexuality Products
Topic: intimaterider
Replies: 5
Views: 23202

Re: intimaterider

It all depends on the nature of the disability. If you're paralyzed, sex therapy would be a better option since they can teach you techniques to find other erogenous zones you can stimulate to achieve orgasm. If you're not paralyzed, I recommend Hitachi Magic Wand .   It has one of the strongest mot...