Disabilities-R-Us

Hello Everybody…

I would like to take the time to address a concern. Although I was able to speak to many members directly through chat not everybody was present and it became clear that a forum post was necessary for everybody’s benefit!

So the problem is there has just been way too much ...

Such sad news...

We have obtained permission from his mother to share an address where people can send condolence cards and flowers if they wish,
Please send to:

Brenda Johnson
1307 Summerville-mamer Rd
Lillington Nc
27546

dj will be cremated and there will be a memorial service for him for ...

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Now, a couple of points, you remember in the beginning of this very long post I shared with her the instance she is now referring to, that she responded and said this was not the instance, it was not even the spelling, I was to search for a different variation of the spelling but now ...

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Please note, the question she refers to that dude kept asking her about happened before any of the accusations, she had received nerve ablations to relieve back pain, and from what I understand may not show immediate signs of relief, I remember these questions were asked over the ...

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Feb 23rd 2019
suze: So glad you came in
[04:45:16] suze: I finally stood up to dude we had many many words back and forth
[04:45:34] dj: whats up? i cant see the main room
[04:45:50] suze: you would have to go back about 10 minutes to see what
[04:46:54] dj: if i can figure it out i ...

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Then this happened


[02:23:08] suze ([email protected]) joined #main.
[02:23:13] <dude> suze
[02:23:14] <suze> hi
[02:23:15] <iagar> hi suze...
[02:23:20] <Skyriver> wb suze
[02:23:23] <iagar> you still have snow?
[02:23:25] <suze> Hey girl
[02:24:02] <iagar ...

Regarding suze, this will be a long one folks so bear with me!
Also, be warned, there are some harsh swear words many will find offended, I have edited my own usage, but left all logs intact.

It all started about 10/11 months ago with an accusation from suze towards dude, she accused him of calling ...

Re: matty57

Yes it is true he has been banned…

I haven’t had to write one of these in a while but I thought everybody deserved to know the reasons behind this one, and yes, reasons, I did not come to this decision over one single event, nor did I come to it alone, I always take these things very ...

Too many cooks…

so today I want to address something which might seem a little odd to people, it’s about helping, although it would be more accurate to say it’s about not helping, or knowing when not to help and when to help and how when everybody is shouting out help at the same time we actually ...

Appreciation!

So this is a little post about reminding people to appreciate the moderators at disabilities-r-us, but not in the sense you may think, I'm not asking you to praise them, to thank them or to bestow gifts upon them, although I really am grateful for everything they do, volunteering ...

Okay everybody, time for a little rant, I have a tendency to be long-winded so I'm just going to try and keep this short and to the point, some names will be mentioned and other points will be more general but this needs to be said!

Rainbow, you've got to stop fighting with people, this past week ...

Hello Everybody!

So a little thing I have noticed recently is a slight raise in animosity towards new people, it's not too much of a problem yet, but I want to address it before it becomes a problem, which it has before.

Some new people are being jumped on or being told we are not a dating site ...

This is a copy of the transcript pretty much from the very beginning of what happened to the very end so you can see the full context of what happened.

[14:32:13] <kay> Hi janeway
[14:32:39] <friend> who ate camel meat?
[14:32:50] <kay> How have you been today and how has your day been
[14:32:58 ...

So it happened again, yes again, and I would like to apologise for having let it continue this long but I am a hopeless diplomat, I really thought talking we could get somewhere but I have failed, so now it's time to action.

Susan tried to join in the conversation that was turning into a racist ...

Even after this post, it is still happening, hence the reposting in the chat room, please do not act surprised if you find yourself removed from the chat without warning, I feel this post was sufficient warning, I have pleaded, I have asked nicely, do not take my patience for weakness, from now on ...