*** LOG OPENED: Wed Sep 10 18:00:13 1997 --- Participants: Disabled (disabled@lawgiver.megacity.org) HandiBot (disabled@trantor.student.utwente.nl) ChanServ (nanook@eskimo.com) Pei phoenyxx DopeHat (khodgdon@ionet.net) Mimi (mimi@lino.com) CincyKid (AMCgroup@support-group.com) Shashone Raven_ Char2 Lokee Mooooooo (dse@pacific.net) --- I spend a lot o time here * phoenyxx as is wondering how much rope to get when the local UPN station goes to WB test Raven: what's been interesting is that most disabled persons I've met are really cool about advice, and most AB people are really cool. but I've met professionals in a support role that are really cold and stand-offish about it. ...and even a few disabled persons that are hostile to other disabled persons! WEIRD! :-) perfect example, Phoenix, Mimi speaks freely to Albertino about disabled sex raven: oh really? :-) logging is on *** coral` has joined #disabled spoke I'm too shy to talk about just asking someone on a date! Ok, everyone, tonight's meeting is on Disability in the Media yes, disability in the media...best example of that is in San Antonio, Texas, USA, on cable channel 20.. a lot of people seek out the disabled because they're generally unbiased there is this cool show about UFOs and space..... he he he :-) As Carly is not here tonight, I will be asking the questions, so now's your chance to get out while you can! You've been forewarned ;o) * Mooooooo is a very opinionated gimp isn't there a disabled Senator? Do you think that the media tries to hide or avoid the subject of disabilities? oops :o) Raven: yeah. I have a good friend, she's in a chair too, and she's really helpful :-) I dont think so i think they try to agrandize it But are there any current TV shows on the big 3 that feature disabled actors? how so, Daniel? I think, they utilize the disabled when it seems fit to do so like being disabled makes you better than you really are because 'you're special' what's he doing? Raven, would you care to elaborate? so, you choose to segregate from the public? Lokee, the only disabled person I ever saw was 'Handi Man' on 'In Living Color' I've suspected that it varies depending on the program...some shows play up a disabled character, others are casual about it. Which media are we talking about? Tv shows, news , movies or ? Moooo: hit it on the head... any, John All of them, actually How about Corky the fellow with Downs? well, whenever there's a public election, it seems that handicaped people/issues tend to emerge, and dissipate afterwards I forgot about Corky Can't think of the name of the show that was an excellent show Yes, I remember Corky too Life goes on There's a reporter on NBC/MSNBC who's in a chair. He's portrayed positively isn't he? yeah, that was a good show :o) life goes on Yes, I think so We are now seeing people in chairs in advertising I think it was very accurate that leads to my next question... which ads? I see more nowadays too Do you think that disabled people are portrayed accurately on television? Sears catalogs for one, Daniel but you don't have them anymore in the US k-marts or walmarts have them often I can't think of anything specifically just now. I am in Canada.Maybe the re areads for local stores that are different demeaning or that they are miraculously cured, poppycock! Ive never seen them there's always a couple of disabled models in the catalogs All in chairs? Mimi: hmmm... again it seems to vary from show to show. usually, yeah yes , now that you mention it what have you seen, then, Simon? but I do resent the depiction of someone becoming disabled and going from jerk to saint overnight. I guess, I think that most are insulting none with metal cruches or with CP some kids with crutches Mimi: on the program 'ER', one of the doctors is disabled...not the actress for real, but that character never waves it around. How about the telephone guy the blind one I like her and his dog And any ads for arthritis (motrin, tylenol etc) feature people that are perfectly mobile do you think she's portrayed accurately? very... true Lokee No distorted joints etc Mimi: yes I do...she's not making her condition her sole identity. she downplays her disability by focusing/honing her skills Raven:exactly! Do you think that's rare in TV then? yes I think its rare I feel they are pitied Mimi: well, I'd say yes. See above me 'jerk to saint' remark What do you usually see? but I don't know if it offends me i dont think it does people in chairs struggeling ...what's happened to me before is that someone actually assumed I was a shallow person prior to the chair...like any niceness, tolerance, or sensitivity wasn't in me before the chair. NOT TRUE. cruth-users being satirized Listen, folks. I need to go. (someone at the door. ) Will join again another time *** Lokee has left #disabled yep, thats what I was saying before If you had the power to change the way the disabled are portrayed on television or in the movies, what would you do? it would be a non issue how so, Daniel? no attempt to explain the condition but Iadmire the deaf lawyer bye they see you as having a 'plastic' personality? or that guy on Sliders that time the computer geek in the chair just be who that person is *** coral` has left irc (Read error to coral` ppp-55.spocom.com]: EOF from client) oh no not again! I knew it! netsplit. hello? i'm here ok, lag then :-) I think so lag for sure its gone Where were we? I'd run for Emperor of the world lolol If you had the power to change the way the disabled are portrayed on television or in the movies, what would you do? that's where we were :o) :-) Raven: lets see, make it a crime to depict the disabled improperly :-) a handicaped hero would be nice Daniel says he would make it a non-issue, does anyone agree or disagree? 'tay I liked Handi Man why, Raven? seriously, to change things, show a disabled person doing something interesting and realistic. I somewhat disagree Dan for example: a show about space missions. A disabled person as a shuttle pilot might not work, but make the disabled person explain, please, Raven :o) how so? the head of mission control, or the engineer in charge. Tough question, people are varied, AB or not because then the public would see us a able instead of disabled show various types of disabilities. Raven: yes. adaptation will have to be an issue ...show a disabled person having the same bad day that everyone else has sometimes. an accurate portrayal of the acts of accomodating the disabled experience instead of simply someone successfuly adapted too many people think we are totally immune to problems...like we are SO easygoing. there was Ironside that's a part of the whole issue hello again Keith! :o) Ironside was a farce though I've had mean-days! Raven: me too! the boat? Ironside was an old police show from the 60's. I've not seen it :-) sorry Dan I only know about it. he was in a wheelchair what are we talking bout he was a para, wasn't he? got shot in the back then??!! yep WOW!!! *** AmyWonder has joined #Disabled something I want to bring up... Keith: If you had the power to change the way the disabled are portrayed on television, what would you do differently? what's that simon? Hello Amywonder! :o) ...something I've had happen about my chair being seen on my TV show here... AMy!!! families hello Power-positions ...some people have seen me in the chair and when I've run outrageous skits or music videos, I love to stand out the reaction from some people is that they're more offended that someone in a wheelchair could think of such crass or violent things.... not offended by the material itself. bully, I don't care I've run into the bad stereotype of how we're supposed to be so nice all the time. They've seen that on TV. I'm getting a tatoo on my arm my ears are pierced that's one thing I want to see eliminated from TV. the stereotyping. Raven: cool! I've an ear-cuff OK, next question: good simon Do you think that the disabled are portrayed accurately in the news? a florecent pink chair-pack oops, sorry Simon, we can continue that if you want Raven: neat! show up on satellite pics. how so? Mimi: no that's ok. huh? In the news..as the subject of reports or as reporters? raven: I mean pink is bright. I like pink as the subject of reports...we'll get to the other in a minute we have a handicaped reporter, but I think that he's token Most news coverage is about discrimation against disabled.. Mimi: local news here in San Antonio is notorious for showing the disabled as always getting picked on by the system. It's bogus. instead of acheivements they did a good job on Dateline on TV DopeHat: good Dateline last night. didn't see it I thougt so too that guy in a chair on NBC dateline did a 1 hr. show on the disabled last night yes for those of us who didn't see it, would you mind telling us about Dateline? Char2: yes but it was 23 hours too short. i thought he did a good job what was the report about? what issues did they bring up? he brought out many of the problems i have had to deal with The report was about how people are still getting away with not complying with ADA. Discrimination agains t disabled.. that too. used two people for job interviews and searching for housing.. one AB and one in a chair.. finding jobs,housing ,and public access hidden camera , you can guess the results, you know who got the job yep It was the blatant denial that amazed me after they where caught on tape no kidding...that's what got me...very open about denial. what they need to get into is how some advocates sanction the discrimination they're supposed to work to stop. at least the one's I've dealt with. what was the job description? Sales mostly.. what kind of sales? the disabled person was given more experience in his qualifications.. people in chairs are told , if they can't get into a public building than go to a buliding that you can get into had done the job in the past but was overlooked what kind of sales? thats not freedom I not surprised at the blatant deenail telemarketing was one, I can't recall the others someone help me out telephone sales oh yeah, one was an uppity glassware shop guy had a heart attack when he seen the person in the chair moble phone sales what kind of voice did the telemarketing applicant have? AmyWonder: I met a woman in a wheelchair who's a job placement counselor who me that her agency gets disabled persons into clerical work for the state... on tv it was good because she says that's all the work they'll be able to get. clerical work is ideal for most ping me Moooo: do I give a rat's ass? It's not ideal for me or for alot of people. clerical sucks. The thing was this guy had more qualifications, more experience but wasn't chosen *** turbokev has joined #disabled I said its ideal, I did not say manditory Kevin :o) *** turbokev has left irc (Leaving) not even in this state Ha! thanx Mooooo: ok, sorry, but I resent feeling like someone was steering me away from what I want to do. this leads into my next quesion on disability in the media... *** bond-d has joined #disabled o you think someone with a disability would be treated fairly when rying to begin a career in the entertainment business? that's DO you think... *** Hghlndr has joined #disabled nope no and I wouldn't expect it either why not? Mooooooo: why? no because most entertainment is about mainstream sex appeal, and the disabled are not considered to have that for the most part i think its a crock but its a fact sad but true- sterotype 7I've seen some pretty disabled Moooooo: but just because it happens it doesn't make it ok or something we have to 'just deal with'. raven: me too. *** HandiBot has left #Disabled (netsplit) ....my friend from the college who's in a chair...I've asked her out a few times :-) chair or no chair :-) You have no choice but to 'deal with it' unless you affect a change in peoples hearts and minds I enjoy talking with her. icecastles was a good example of determination Moooooo: so something has to be done.... but than again no one in the entertainment industy is&1 did she go? *** Hghlndr has left irc (Ping timeout for Hghlndr 171-29-42.ipt.aol.com]) *** nate__ has joined #disabled so do soemthing :o) raven: well, she and I met for lunch quite a bit. No official dates though :-) hay all hello nate hi nate Mooooo: that is what I am doing on my show although it's in small way. friendship is important, though I make sure people see me hosting and producing my show. The chair comes second, and they see there's a real person there. good :o) anyone interested in this issue might want to check out the model agency ShotModels at http://www.shotmodels.com/ Raven: yeah. Another woman friend met me when she saw me on TV...she saw the chair but wanted to meet me anyway. we're good friends now :-) great!! Should disabled entertainers keep their disabilities hidden if at all possible? I just keep going to auditions NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! *** nate__ has left irc (Killed (hub.eskimo.com (lorien.ml.org <- services2.newnet.net 204.122.16.48] (older nick overruled)))) Mimi: no. they should do what I try to do, just act natural. *** nate__-- has joined #disabled Gary Burgogh did Radar from M.A.S.H. I make my program and my work stand on its own. n oway and a good job of it too Dan he only has 3 fingers on his left hand what's his disability? THE CHAUR WILL catalyst a feeling of capability oh, wow, I never knew that chair lol That's what i said Mimi!! *** Char2 has left #Disabled Raven: yeah it's cool. I told her that the guy she's seeing is really lucky :-) *** bond-d has left #disabled great, but not you? *** nate__-- is now known as nate__ I think the media ' uses ' the disabled Raven: no, but she and I are still good friends, and that to me means I still have a good chance of meeting someone who'll not mind the chair/ . hello nate :o) to their advantage how, John? hay mimi :-) Raven: :-) To show need for a cause, or to boost ratings friend are really important to me, right now CincyKid: no kidding. Pardon me for sounding crass but I can't stand the 'feel-good' stuff they try to pull. sure, most times disabled are only paraded when they are either bitching or 'being special', just like christians are only shown when one is a lunatic committing a crime I agree for the most part very true, Daniel Moooooo: very true! someone one kind of disability is made to look more fashionable that others! But as Daniel said, I doubt if any of this will change I halfway agree I think most TV shows suck in general, the boob tube * Mimi agrees with John :o) CincyKid: me too. I watch my tapes and select regular shows. And the shows nowadays are pathetic I watch alot of Discovery and Learning Channel. :-) Would you buy an album from a disabled recording artist, even if it wasn't the type of music you normally listen to? Am I rude by saying that I'm greatly offended by the publicity that Christopher Reeve attracts? Why or why not? *** Lao-tzu has joined #disabled like Joni Erikson? no It would have to be something I like no, why is that Raven? Raven: hate to say it but I get the same feeling. no disrespect intended. sorry I'm late no he's not the only darn one!! Heya Han :o) Han :o) Mimi: music from a disabled artist? if it's a type of music I like anyway, sure I'd buy the CD to check it out. only if i like the music Joni Erikson is a christian singer in a wheelchair Who here has been to the 'Van Gogh' web site? i would if i liked the music I might be convinced to at least give it a listen even if I hadn't heard of them before. I cannot stand Reeves attiude! you know music may be the only area with the least discrimination against disabled i have once 'Van Gogh' is cool I have, Daniel they're all para's raven: about reeve, again I hate to sound so harsh but yeah, I feel the same way. I really try to understand but he's not the only one. but I've never heard their music Van used to come here before he started touring Excellent music Thank you, I feel better knowing cool :o) *** rowdie^ has joined #Disabled we should have him on as a special guest :o) hello rowdie :o) yea mimi you can download music clips from their web site hi mimi Van Gogh? or the elected representative of the disabled Van Gogh Raven: I alway felt bad feeling so harsh about the way the media hypes Reeve. because I'm not so harsh most of the time. *** Pyro has joined #disabled Van Gogh? who is Van Gogh? wb Jeff :o) not at all what i thought it would be like.. i thought it had gone stupid 'Van Gogh' is a band http://www.mindspring.com/~vangogh/ i did to Van Gogh (The Band) Rock that Rolls! :o) all are in chairs lol cool...what sort of music do they play? and their music is good? rock/pop i like it have they ever had any chart hits? email MTV so they will show a video dunno i think they have a video clip on their page too There's a group in Vancouver BC called Spinal Chord -- pretty cool too Raven: better way to get eMpTyV to play the right music is to park a Ryder truck out front..... :-) http://www.mindspring.com/~vangogh/ check it out :o) Simon......... Mimi: what? not funny. lol IMHO Mimi: just park a truck used to haul furniture/ . OK, next question :o) Have you ever had thoughts about becoming an entertainer? ok Mimi: yes! :-) If so, were/are you discouraged by the fact that you have a disability? i did when my frend jesica biel made it people suggested that i become a standup comic No, I'm a little agoraphobic lol me too...my friends have said I should give stand up a try sometime. I can see it, Daniel :o) or sitdown? and I don't feel deterred by my condition. Mimi: I'm a one man band with my Fender Strat & Roland GR-1 synth I want to act and sing Raven: funny! :-) I used to act... Steele Magnolias I was Weezer, in drag in school, Raven? LOL funny as hell yea I' still here so if you ran with someone dressed like that..... DRAG RACING! :-) lol I might work in costumes or something, :-} I've acted in a show my friends and I make- different from the one I was talking about earlier. but not on-stage which is?? Are there any other issues that you would like to bring up regarding Disability in the Media? really funny skits. I'm more comfortable in the weird skits we do than as a presenter on my own program. :-) then, do one on your show... mimi, I got in late it seems so you guys have probably already worn the subject out question: I get hateful reactions sometimes on my voicemail for my show... ...are they really angry that someone in a chair was on TV? just jump in, Rowdie, if you have anything to say :o) or is it just Beavis and Butthead screwing with the phone. ? Any suggestions on how to improve the media's view or portrayal? lol I dunno Simon I did a segment on parking problems. Upset some viewers with that one. Any suggestions on how to improve the media's view or portrayal? I want HandiMan back why, Simon? goes with the territory, I think Not so much an issue as much as recognition for the Vancouver Adapted Music Society (VAMS) that creates musical oportunities for PWD Mooooooo: not that. *** jody- has joined #disabled Mimi: because it showed vigilantism in response to someone using a handicapped spot illegally. I went to Vancouver jody :o) hi mooooooo Jody! :o) hi Mimi! people were more offended with me in my chair with a gun that with the violent nature of the skit. how are ya? It was comedy Dan, BUT don't you think it adds to the sterotyping? hay jody hi nate hey jody *** dr_bill has joined #disabled actually, i think it got a lot of praises from some disabled bbl lightning storm *** Pyro has left irc (Ping timeout) Bill!!!!! Dr Bill! :o) hello bill !!!!!!!!!!!1 Hello everyone Hi Dr. Bill, good to have you on board For those of you that just arrived, the last question was: Moooooo: not on this planet it got praises. Are there any other issues that you would like to bring up regarding Disability in the Media? i read stuff in tv guide feel free to jump in :o) mimi, is that disabled people working in the media, or how the media perceives disabled people? I think one good way to change people's attitudes would be to have a disabled person shown cutting up and having a 'normal' good time with their friends. take your pick, Rowdie *** Raven_ has left irc (Leaving) Many people are impressed with that aspect of the skits they've seen us do on TV. ....that I'm seen acting as weird as the rest of them :-) Here in Toronto we have a TV channel (CityTV) that has a reporter in a wheelchair one show we did looked like 'The Young Ones'/ we used to have a reporter here in a chair but she moved to another station in another city. well, in regard to both, I think a lot of positive things have happened, particularly in the last 10-15 years such as? we have a wether reporter in a wheelchair well, as people in here are talking about, there are more disabled people working in the media The thing is there are more disabled people working in all jobs. that's true, dr bill 15 years ago disabled were kept in a closet I was but part of that is a realization by the media that not all disabled people are only 'poster children' where i went to grammar school, anyone different was put ina special school The thing is people and the media found out we had minds. computers has help ed that's true, moo, technology has helped for sure There are now Judges, lawyers, computer programmers, engineers, and every type of job being performed by disabled. The media plays all these people up but forgets the ones that are not making it. there needs to be many more disabled hired! Bill Yes dr_bill: the media shows the extremes. Always, never the middle. I think that's always going to be true, phoenyxx either totally dependent on the system or a success story. never in the middle. ...extremes...the thing that irritates me about that is that even advocates seem to sanction the lower extreme, if that makes sense. thats their job, simon the system wants you to be dependent and not get out of that mode. Moooooo: no kidding. then they will not have any work to do. the advocates get paid to keep them barely dependant/independant/ or they would be out of a job I disagree I suppose, moo, but I am not quite that synical ..but some of these 'experts' I've worked with preach independence as 'doing without' and accepting difficulty and lack of access as 'tough sh**' because it was tough for everyone else. You mean there's going to be a shortage of those who need advocates? I think the attitude of some of them is due to burn-out I wish I could believe that, cincy, but I don't think so no, i just think that paid advocates are more concered with the 'pay' part than the 'advocate' part What I was trying to say is there are some of us that are classed unemployable because of severity of disability. I'll stick with the volunteers CincyKid: my friend (the one in the chair) has CP from birth (although it's not as severe as some would expect) was telling advocates don't help anyone! that is the truth AmyWonder *** ChanServ has left irc (Killed (LadyBear (auto update - 3 hours))) Depends on the individual, the advocate me that people liked helping her until she got older, by the time she was 18 or so she says that it was like suddenly her with her disability wasn't cool anymore, like it wasn't 'fun' working with her. ....some advocates are very selective about who they'll help, and it's got nothing to do with what people's needs are. I've seen alot of social discrimination within the disabled community. *** ChanServ has joined #Disabled They do that with alot of people phoeniyxx Hell, I got read the riot act by a counselor for having done my show! ...of course I didn't listen. the show goes on! :-) I'm sorry, I think the same can be said of doctors, lawyers, cops, etc I get told I should not do vollenteer work. I've only been in a chair for three years. The 'system' doesn't wan't to help me because they feel that I can take on a regular 9-5 job. Good thing my pension kicks in because I need to lie down every 2 hours due to the pain in my back. I don't know many employers that could accomodate that. geez! good for you, Phoenyxx! thanks! :-) Bill, I don't want to see you do too much volunteer work, I want to see you make some money too because you are well worth it So, I picked up my copies of 'The Art of War' by Sun-Tzu and am starting my own advocacy actions If I make any money the 'system' takes it away. I am allowed 640 month and that's it. sheesh At the community college I am finishing at, the Disabled Student Services focuses on disabled students in vocational programs- the ones training for clerical jobs. that sux I cann't afford the medications I'm on. the students taking academic degree classes ae shut out. the bed I'm on is 100 per day. sux like a black hole bill. wow ...eeeck! that's not right, bill, that's just not fair It took me 3 years to get into doctorate program with a 4.0 gpa. I was first one at University of Washingtion doctoral program. you have 2 PhD's now? Yes cool! congrats! and how many masters? After the first the second was easier. that's impressive, bill I have 5 masters and 3 bachelors. Folks I hate to leave but I must. It's been a great chat tonite! i will catch you all some other night. now you see why I ask you for advice :o) And you stilll can't get hired bill? *** CincyKid has left #disabled I want to be like you Dr. Bill.... take care john The thing is the system puts limitations on any one with a disability. We 'have to get accommidations made for us' I love school Precisely! *** SQUEEK has joined #Disabled I love school also. 19 years as a student. One more year and i can retire. :o) hi squeek hi lol question I have.... rofl concerning the problems in getting a job as a disabled person.... bye bye! *** SQUEEK has left #Disabled do I run the risk of alienating other disabled persons if I am successful on my own doing independet video production or writing? *** SQUEEK has joined #Disabled rather than getting a 9-5 job that alot of people have to get. *** SQUEEK has left #Disabled You have to do twice as much and be 2 times better than anyone else to get the job to begin with. and to be independent is even harder so I'll have a harder time getting people to read a book a might write? or see a video I directed? no, phoenyxx, lol Disabled people never alienate their fellow disabled for being successful. It's when the disabled give up and become bum's. No simon *** dr_bill has left irc (Leaving) thanks. I want to do what I am good at, and I am better at shooting and editing video, or trying to write stories, than I am at sitting around answering phones :-) but I don't want people thinking I've 'abandoned' the disabled community when those things pan out. I dunno, ive seen some called 'Uncle Tom's' dr. bill is right when he says disabled people never alienate their fellow disabled for being successful, phoenyxx guys I've gotta run bye Amy! :o) bye amy Bye Amy *hugs* :o) ping me and smoochies too :o) ping me kisses moooo! /:o) mimi :0) no way, phoenyxx no one would think that *** AmyWonder has left irc (night all!) rowdie: thanks. :-) some of the negative remarks about the access show I think we have Lagus Interuptus lol have been from a couple of disabled students at the college. *** jody- has left #disabled weird they'd be offended by it. *** jody- has joined #disabled *** LOG CLOSED: Wed Sep 10 19:43:19 1997